Who is the most important person in your life?
Before you continue reading, honestly answer this question for yourself.
.. and who was the first person that came to your mind?
If you are saying “my partner, my mom, dad, brother, …” then you should think about it again.
Here is the healthiest answer you can give: “I AM the most important person in my life.” Yes, right. YOU!
Now you might say, well, isn’t that arrogant? No, it is not and it doesn’t mean that it is okay being ruthless. It just means that your happiness comes first. If you are not happy, you are not helping. You can only give what you already have within yourself.